Hi there. I’m glad we matched on Hinge. Now it’s time to get a little unhinged!

I don’t want to waste your time, so it would make me really happy for you to know a bit more about me than those little dating app blurbs before we move forward.

Ok. Are you ready?

Let’s get into it!

Originally, I’m from the south of Germany (Frankonia) and now live in Leipzig where I share my dream apartment with a female friend. The community I have built here over the years means everything to me. However, I also love exploring new places, travelling, and could also imagine moving away again someday.

The last three years have transformed my life through painful, but ultimately valuable experiences. During this time, I took a one-year-break from dating to figure out who I am and what I want in a partner. I’m now getting started as an artist and writer, and I’m very excited to dive into this over the coming years. That’s why, when it comes to dating, I’m not just a girl looking for a boyfriend, but a man who’s got my back in these endeavours.

I’m very cuddly and affectionate, but I also need a lot of alone time to be happy (being in nature, journaling, my friends, art, working out, travelling, weird witchy stuff). Therapy made me self-aware enough to reflect on my behaviours and humble enough to know that I don’t always know what’s best for me. I’m an adaptvie perfectionist in the sense that I see what needs to be improved upon in the world and have a strong desire to close that gap beween reality and my vision.

I have also always had a deep desire to be feminine and submissive (beyond just the sexual side of things). While I enjoy running my own business, I’m at my happiest and most authentic when I can truly let go. That’s why I appreciate men who are grounded, protective, and have leadership qualities – it gives me a chance to switch my brain off for a minute. That being said, my submission is precious to me and must be earned and appreciated.

What impresses me is a man who has a strong dedication to his purpose, who doesn’t suppress emotions in order to appear strong, but shares them with his friends, and who isn’t afraid to call me out on my bullshit. If you want an equal life partner who can match your intelligence and depth, but also desire a woman’s devotion and intuition, I’m going to feel safe, creative and happy with you.

And another thing…

I currently use a ‘no kissing for three months’ dating rule. I’m a sensitive person and this rule lets me keep my head on during the dating process. It would make me feel super appreciated and respected if you could honor that boundary. And I already know you have a lot of patience because you’ve read this far.